“蒙田”的名言：Mariagemaybecomparedtoacage:thebirdsoutsidedeapairtogetinandthosewithindespairtogetout.(MicheldeMontaigne,Frenchthinkerandssayist)婚姻好比鳥籠，外面的鳥想進(jìn)進(jìn)不去；里面的鳥兒想出出不來。